Tuesday, March 4, 2014

Desiderata

This came across while i'm reading an article online, and it definitely resonated with me. The message is simple yet so powerful. What a great reminder and words to live by.

"Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. 
As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant, they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit. 
If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. 
Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love, for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is perennial as the grass. 
Take kindly to the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. 
Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. 
Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. 
With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. 
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy."

Max Ehrmann c.1920

Sunday, October 7, 2007

Grateful and Thankful


Thanksgiving, one of my favourite holidays.  I have morning routine that sometimes I tend to skip due to my busy (school) days.  I know it takes only few minutes to meditate but for some reason I still manage to not do it.  Now, I wanted to incorporate "PRACTICING GRATITUDE" ha!. Someone once said that "in our student days it is perhaps easier to remember our lack of money and things. It is easy to take a look around and be disappointed and pissed off. As a student, the "lack of" in our lives can make it easier to want things even more, especially when we lived in a media landscape saturated with invitation to desire items we can only wish for as a student. There's an entire industry designed to show us what we don't have and make us want it enough". I find everything he wrote is so true, most of us (if not all) wants to have everything and if we do, we seems to wanting for more...no contentment perhaps. And we tend forget how a simple thank you can go a long way. Practicing gratitude is a hard work indeed...it takes so much effort to do sometimes but it is worth the try and practice.  And maybe one day, I can be a good example to my kid(s) in the future.  "Gratitude doesn't mean that we see the world through rose coloured glasses, but rather that we choose to see the good things we have been blessed with..."  


Happy thanksgiving!

Monday, June 25, 2007

Tofino here we come!

Yay! I guess that timing wasn't so bad after all! I just finished the Business Law final exam and I think I did good =). It's mostly essays so, i don't have to memorize every single thing in the book (phew). Anywho, gotta start packing for our trip to Tofino. I'm so excited for my surfing lesson! This is my first visit down there and it's gonna be fun.



Cox Bay is where we're going to spend most of our time (for surfing). The water current is different down there (apparently) compare to Chesterman and MacKenzie Beach which is more calm and relaxing. Can't wait!!!


Wednesday, March 16, 2005

Intelligence vs. Wisdom

Most of us think that intelligence is wisdom, but what is it exactly? They say intelligence does not necessarily include wisdom, yet wisdom contains intelligence. So does that mean intelligence is just an ability to measure advantages and disadvantages, gains and losses? When the mind attains tranquility...wisdom will arise naturally. Unfortunately, people are often being influence by external circumstances, which only shows that we have not attained wisdom or tranquility yet.  Or maybe it's just me...

Monday, March 27, 2000

Angel from Flue

We're not that close,
as what they think
coz time is short
as fast as quick,
we met before
and say hello...
but then today
you have to go...
Life is that ...
as we all know
it's like a wheel,
that roll and roll
we can control it,
but sometimes we can't...
it keeps on going,
no matter what.
You have your destiny,
and i have mine
both of us met,
with different minds
i really don't know
what's with you
I just wanna call you
my angel from flue...

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